Are We Became Married?:I have been thinking a lot about this recently, marriage. The ideal we have been bought up to believe is woman meet man, they feel this undying affection for each other at first sight, man proposes to woman, they get married, have children and live happily ever after in love until the day they die.
That sounds amazing but so far from what I have experience. There are so many questions I have about this. Is there love at first sight? I personally experienced very strong feeling of phsical attraction when I have come into contact with certain guys; a feeling of light headedness and my heart beating faster, what is this feeling? Is this love, passion or lust. This is the most exciting feeling in the world and what I would to expect every day for the rest of my married life if I was to marry,I would love to meet a person that has this.So you are in love and you are married, how do you make it work? How can you give your passionate life to one person and not look at any other man? Is this humanly possible? From my life so far I know that I must have commitment issues and so must the majority of my girlfriends, as we have found after being passionately in love for 2 years with our partner that amazing spark and connection disappears and it is the most frustrating, celebrate feeling in the world. What is this? Is it comfort kicking in or is it boredom? So if this happens with every guy does this mean that marriage for ever isn’t for everyone? Maybe we are not ment to be monogamous? And go through life from relationship to relationship. This would be simple if children didn’t come into the equation.
So my question really is, is there such thing as undying try love? Or does everyone loose that spark eventually its just how you deal with it?
